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This
just in from Sam
Michael "Woody" O'Brien story
2nd District
Court of Appeals- California story
Larry Napton Story
John
S 10/15/2008
Tell us your story...: Hello, My name is John S.
and I am a father of 2 young boys, they are my life
and without them I have nothing. Unfortunately,
their mom and I have separated due to immaturity
on both parts. My life has since moved on but I
have been getting the wrong end of the deal of being
a parent. I have supplied for my boys since day
one but she has turned to the state of Illinois
for support because she wanted to use the money
for her own well-being and not for the kids. I am
now on child support and it\'s hard for me to accept
the fact that so many dads are not there for their
kids but I am, why must I go through this. Well,
I work now and the support is draining my check,
I don\'t know how I am going to live, I don\'t know
what to do but try my best to make it work with
the courts to show that I am never in neglect with
my kids. She has been taking money from the state
the whole time I have been supplying and supporting
my kids. I just need help with what resources and
I have been ordered to pay insurance as well, so
I need to know what companies can help with my situation.
I love kids, and I\'m proud to be a parent but I
am not happy with the way that Dads are treated,
it seems like the law is backwards and doesn’t\'t
work for the right of the child. I hope you guys
hear me. |
Sam
My name is Sam I have been divorced for 10 years. I have
two daughter\'s Rebecca and Kimberly and they live with
their mother and stepfather.
Prior to and long after the divorce the mother and stepfather
have pushed me from my children’s lives and speak harshly
about me to my daughters. The pain that they have inflicted
emotionally cannot be weighed.
It had gotten so bad at one time or another I lost hope
in ever having a relationship with my children. I tried
to put myself out of the picture like they wanted because
they just hated me so bad. I left a few times once I was
gone for a year when I was working in Kosovo with the
UN mission and a medical NGO where I worked directly with
the people that needed it most.
I did not believe me not being close to my children had
more value at the time when a people were handed this
hardship. I buried my pain deep inside as I did what I
thought was the right thing. The mother and stepfather
talked horrible of me to my children and would tell them
if I loved them I would be there.
For every day they spoke of hatred and belittled me in
the eyes of my children I was losing lives left and right.
In 1 hour of my life I lost 4 children, 2 died in a river.
A young boy about my daughters age now the other his younger
brother. In the room came more children this time two
little girls about the age of my daughters then. They
laid the children on the bed and blood pooled in the floor.
A car had hit the girls and it never stopped.
It was so devastating to me and I have seen so much yet
at this time the war had ended. The land was beginning
to heal. The people rebuilding their homes their lives
and then these 4 children lost. I worked for a year in
Kosovo and returned home tried again to establish my relationship
with my children. Jumping thru hoops and walking on eggshells
I kept my mouth closed and did not disagree with what
she would allow.
It was not long till I felt depressed again with the feeling
of causing more friction and stress in the lives of my
children. Their mother would ground them from seeing me
or deny my visitation because forever reason she had.
I left again for about 9 months and went to help my sister
in Florida. She was having some problems with her pregnancy
and her husband was recruiting for the Army 45 miles away.
I went to help out; I gave her my car to use and took
up truck driving. My X again filling my kids ears up with
what a terrible person I was and If he loved you he\'d
be here. I only drove for about six months and turned
my truck back in.
Returned to my home with my mother and father and tried
again to reestablish my relationship with my kids. No
maters were I was, I was always talking to my kids by
phone sending letters to my mom and dad and stayed in
contact with my kids. Even from the other side of the
world at 7 dollars a minute by satellite phone once a
month I called my parents and stayed in contact.
The child support was always paid even for a six month
period of unemployment I took from it the child support
checks. I live two hours from my kids. I make and have
always made every trip paid for every gallon of gas ,
motel rooms. The mom and step dad never ever have they
tried to bring me closer to my children or offer to help
or drive them.
They do not tell me when they are sick, they have never
told me when they were hurt. I have never been invited
to birthday parties. Not even a report card or picture
or a letter. ....... that really hurt.
I try so hard to be apart of the kid’s lives and they
continue to push me out. I have lived here since 2003
working two jobs. I try to get my kids every other weekend
all though the court only granted me one. They flip/flop
that time in favor of babysitting needs not on my days
off. I do not get every other holiday and should have
for years. I did not get three weeks in the summer. I
got 1 week once and two weeks another.
They have the kids talk to me for them. They have them
ask about child support checks and schedule our visitation
time, if they change the visitation they blame the kids
for the mishap and my kids cry and I hold back my emotions
and try to sooth the pain.
I tell my kids how fast the week will go by and I call
them and they call me thru the week. Then if their mother
does not sabotage our time I make the trip to go get them.
Four hour round trip so 8 hours of our quality time is
spent on the road. It’s usually late Friday evenings before
I can get them and I take them home on Sunday about 4
in the evening. Pretty much all we get is Saturday and
I spoil the hell out of them. They do more in one day
with me that they do in a month.
They have grounded them from seeing me twice. Denied me
visits 6 or eight times. Sold most of everything Iv bought
for my kids or let the other kids in the house destroy
it. They still belittle me and speak about me being no
good.
There are some tricks added to the hat in the last 3 years.
They are totally dependant on my kids to baby-sit. They
held them out of school to baby-sit and almost had Rebecca
held back a year because of it. I had to get the school
involved. Her school grades are suffering from no study
time at home. I asked for consolers to talk to my kids
to see if everything was going ok at home. Their is no
after school activities that they are allowed to partake
in.
My kids tell me the step father hits them in anger or
curses at them and has even threatened them. My kids are
so great my youngest is ADD. She is 13 and still loves
to sit on my lap. I get big hugs and she talks my ears
off. She is so cool. She has lots of issues to deal with.
I have many letters from the school about her behavior
and they always ask me to talk with her when my x-wife
lets me see them.
Because it tends to help the school says. I have gotten
evolved as much as I can with the school and they send
me report cards. They never see the kid’s mom come to
check on the kid’s behavior at school. My oldest is very
emotional and her stepfather is always making her cry.
Just this weekend they denied my visitation because I
was told their mother had to work. I told my daughter
I was going to make a complaint and the stepfather called
me back and accused me from one end to the other. I see
the hatred is still thick in the air.
I am crazy about my kids. I have taken advantage of
every opportunity given to me to see them. I have missed
so much in their lives and I cannot bear to lose anymore.
How do I fix this situation? It is a fact that in ten
years I have not been given even 1-year worth of time
with them. My heart is full of pain and suffering why
would anyone treat someone like this?
I sometimes think, hey Sam maybe you are the problem so
I dissect my life to see what I have done wrong? I have
feelings and when I cannot see my kids or tuck them in
and read books to them It really hurts and I cry. I cry
my self to sleep I worry about them. Why can’t I have
more time with my kids? I love them and they love me why
can I not be apart of their lives?
I feel loss and rage pulse thru my veins. I have tears
dripping from my face as I write. Why can I not be the
father in my children’s life? Why does he curse them and
call them stupid or retarded?
Why does he strike them? Why does he force them to take
care of his other three children and deny my visitation?
He holds no Job he claims he is Disabled He drinks like
a fish works for untaxed money from his uncle and goes
hunting and fishing.
He has a boys night out away from the kids....and I cant
get close to them?
I’m smoking cigarettes fiendishly grinding my teeth...why?
Nothing I do can change the situation. I will not engage
with him an argument or return a bad word. I wont let
my children down. I will not cuss him like he does them
I wont pound on him or smack him around like he does them
because it will not change anything.
My kids are torn by the heart from what they have invested
in a dysfunctional family and beg for a better life but
not at the cost of losing their little sisters and brother.
In the same breath they love their stepfather and are
afraid of him. I am not afraid of him I do not cower in
his voice I spite him and all he does to belittle and
degrade my children. I draw strength from my kids and
will stand down to his provoking behavior.
I will not leave this time...How do I claim my children’s
lives without losing their loved ones?
In god we trust,
Sam
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Michael
"Woody" O'Brien Wrote to us and asked to share his
story
On July 3rd 2003 when my sons mother died of cancer, his grandfather,
a retired
judge kidnapped him from her funeral and comitted social security
and many other
frauds in his name as a part of his sick religious jihad against
my 2nd wife and I
because we are not catholics.
Despite the fact I have no criminal record, am a well respected
financial advisor
for 25 years, and was a model father the police did nothing
and a corrupt county
judge (see http://www.impeachjudgebayley.com
ignored both Pa and federal law and
gave legal custody of my son to his grandparent kidnappers,
the same people who
repeately abused me as when I was a child. He also gave my 2nd
wife, her family and
Me ZERO visitation rights, effectivly terminating my parental
rights without any
seperate hearing the law requires barring me from even seeing
my child who is now a
student at the Milton Hershey school.
The Milton Hershey schools corrupt adminstrators assisted the
kidnapper grandfather
(who is a corrupt retried state court judge the police refused
to arrest) after the
fact.
Please read my story at http://www.luckiestmanonearth.com
and share it with others
you think it will intrest. Murder OJ Simpson has custody of
his teens having been
found civially responsible for their mothers murder, yet my
parental rights in a 45
year life without so much as an unpaid parking ticket were given
illegally to a
proven child abuser who kidnapped my child.
The clear constitutional right of parents to raise their child
as they see fit free
of interference of busybody relatives or the state was validated
again in 2000 by
the US supreme court in Grantville vs troxell, yet Pennsylvania
family courts
routinely ignore this law of the land.
On 11/30/04 The Pa supreme court (just like the state supior
court had done) ignored
all state and federal laws protecting the rights of surviving
parents and the
kidnapper grandparents blatent criminal interference and refused
to even hear our
appeal to get our now totally brainwashed son back.
PA and federal law regarding the right of surviving parents
have NEVER been enforced
in our case BECAUSE the kidnapper grandfather is a retired judge.
What is the point of having laws if they are not equally enforced?
Equal justice
under the law is a PR myth.
The media just wont cover custody fraud like this unless celeberity
or murder is
involved
this kind of horror goes on everyday.
When there is no truth, there is no justice and no American
way.
God Bless you and be grateful everyday your family is normal
by comparison, and the
government has not YET selected you life to destroy.
Michael "Woody" O'Brien
Mechanicsburg Pa
http://www.luckiestmanonearth.com |
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SENT TO US A SHORT TIME AGO
I was divorced in 1993 because my ex wife was
cheating and she was always using physical, mental and emotional
abuse on me. I had the hardest time leaving my daughter at the
time only being about 6 months old it tore me apart.
I had a bad lawyer and I assumed since she committed
adultery I would get custody.... yeah right. She got custody
I think looking back there were a lot of things to be done but
my lawyer was not at all worth what I paid her.
My ex-wife is a very controlling and manipulating
woman and she has used this on my daughter for years telling
her bad things about my wife and myself. My daughter came to
me last year crying as she has for quite some time and asked
me to fight for her to live with me so I did.
It was very, very expensive as you know but I
actually won custody. Long story short we went to court and
the judge asked how long each side needed for court time and
they came up with an answer of a couple of hours.
I ended up on the stand first and I had a very
good attorney that had prepared me for court. I was on the stand
for 30 minutes when the judge says time for lunch and also said
when I come back from lunch I want your daughter in my office.
We all went to lunch then my daughter went and
talked to the judge being 12 years old in Texas it is legal.
I guess she told the judge how she felt and that she wanted
to live with me. The judge came back and said well we are out
of time we will have to continue this on another date.
I guess between my words on the stand and my
daughter talking to the judge my ex got scared and the very
next morning my attorney called. She said the other side wants
to make a deal and let your daughter come live with you.
I was jumping for joy. Well it was good for a
couple of months then my daughter started acting angry and strange
and I was thinking about what my ex had put me through and knew
that her mother had gotten in her head.
My daughter announced that she wanted to go back
to her mothers so I was not going to fight her on it and she
went back and is still there.
My daughter comes to me last weekend crying and
asking me to bring her back home because she cannot take it
anymore and I told her she cannot keep going back and forth
it is not right not to mention expensive and very hurtful.
We went back to court to have custody go back
to my ex when my daughter went back I ended up with a different
attorney and she was terrible to say the least.... long story
short.... I got slammed with back support from the time my daughter
went back to her mothers (5 months ago) they doubled my child
support and hit me with her attorney fees.
I am now broke and troubled by this system that
is supposed to be fair and equal and just I feel I have been
robbed and cheated. There is a lot more to this story but I
did not want to get to carried away. |
See----
www.stanley2002.org/fathersrights.htm
2nd
District Court of Appeals- California
Governor Grey Davis recently appointed Robert A. Schnider to
the
bench in Los Angeles. The Judge was admittedly angry at the
Father based
on an allegation by a custody evaluator who was of the professional
opinion that Father was manipulating the system in an effort
to delay the
Mother from moving away to the state of Kentucky. The custody
evaluator
indicated the Mother SHOULD be allowed to move away. The Private
Custody Evaluator (who is also a local Family Therapist) did
acknowledge,
that the Mother indicated she would not move if the Judge did
not allow
her to. The children were raised in California and both sides
of their
Families were located in the area.
In early 2001, well over a year before the hearing, the Mother
and Father had
both stipulated and agreed to actual Joint physical custody
of their
children. In
this agreed and judicially ordered status quo arrangement, the
children
spent one
week with each parent.
In September 2002, after this custody evaluation was conducted,
the Mother
filed to move away. The Judge indicated he had decided in chambers
that
he was going to allow the move for what he indicates was a punitive
reason, based on the alleged delay. However, after the parties
officially
appeared before the court and Father disputed the evaluator's
report,
Schnider agreed to continue the matter until November for a
full
hearing, still admitting he was leaning on allowing the children
to move due
to the alleged delay.
In November 2002, Father went to court with witnesses and a
Forensic Psychologist and found the court had only granted him
2 hours to
present his full case. During the hearing, the court stopped
the trial
in mid-testimony and set it to continue three months later.
On the
objection of Father's Attorney, the Court indicated he was allowing
the
children to move to Kentucky in the interim, without allowing
Father the
opportunity to present his evidence. The court stated he believed
the
Father delayed the move, indicating he does take it into consideration
that the Father has not had the opportunity to dispute the delay
allegation. The Judge also stated that the move "does not
predict the ultimate
resolution of this case." The trial court balanced Stepfather's
alleged
new job against the Fathers Fundamental rights. Father's attorney
refused to file a writ of supersedeas.
Three months later, after completion of the trial, the Judge
admitted he was wrong about believing the evaluator's delay
allegation and
that was why he let the children move, but he felt "it
was certainly OK
that I did." The Judge stated he was going to allow the
relocation,
indicating he was exercising his "widest discretion"
under Burgess
footnote 12 and stated "I should treat this as a de novo
hearing" and the
"Burgess case also tells me to take the parties as I find
them, and I find
the respondent living in the state of Kentucky and the Petitioner
living here." Schnider admitted that if the children were
still living here
in California, he would not have disturbed the Joint physical
custodial
agreement (not allow the children to move).
The Judge acknowledged that Mother had misrepresented to the
court
the need to move. The Father did indicate to the court before
the move
that Mother's motives were questionable. However, the court
stated he
felt the Mother gave an acceptable reason for wanting to move
away (in
court testimony, two months after her move had already occurred
).
Testimony shows the stepfather took a Family Medical Leave from
his full
time job in California when the court allowed the move and had
his job
still open and waiting for him two months later when the court
allowed the
children to stay in Kentucky.
A Forensic Psychologist (also a local custody evaluator) testified
that the original custody Evaluator was biased against the Father
and
conducted a biased and unbalanced evaluation. The evaluator
disregarded
and left out of her report everything that was not favorable
to the
Mother, using language such as "Father complained"
and "Father belabored."
The evaluator also misrepresented to the Court a previously
conducted
mini-evaluation that was unfavorable to Mother and Stepfather
and made
it appear to be unfavorable to the children's Father. In this
court
ordered mini-evaluation, conducted 9 months before the biased
custody
evaluation, the Daughter indicated she loved both of her parents
equally and
the little boy stated his Father was his favorite person.
The Court did acknowledge that the Father was
the better parent.
The Judge also dismissed away evidence of the Mother's behavior
(such as
removing Father's name from he children's school emergency cards
numerous times in California and in Kentucky and denying the
Father overnight
visits when he visited the children in Kentucky). Schnider stated
that
this is not the behavior of a parent attempting to frustrate
the
child's relationship with the other parent. The Courtroom spectators
and the
Families of the children who were present in the courtroom were
shocked
at the court's unfairness and minimization of the Father's Fundamental
rights. One Attorney who was resent in the Courtroom stated
it was very
obvious that this Judge did not like the Father.
Entered into evidence was medical documentation of two separate
injuries upon the 6-year-old boy caused by both his Mother and
new
Stepfather. Shortly before the evaluation began, and 5 days
after
Stepfather's injury on the child was medically documented, the
Mother accused the
Father of spanking and leaving bruises on the boy. The Mother
allegedly
made a videotape of some bruises on the boy's bottom. This video
has
not been seen by the Father, was not shared with his Attorney
or seen by
the court and Mother took both children to the Doctors that
same day of
the alleged video for something different, but questionably
never
mentioned or medically verified these alleged bruises. The Father
indicated
he told the Mother and the custody evaluator that the child
had fallen
off his bike and if there really was any bruising, that is where
it
would have come from. The custody evaluator indicated she believed
there
was evidence of Father's alleged "abuse" based on
the video and w!
hat the children told her, yet mentioned nothing about the bicycle
incident. The evaluator reported to the court that the children
had minimal
contact with Doctors and therefore refused to contact them even
though
there was this documentation of injury upon the boy. The evaluator
also
noted that the children were told what to say by their Mother.
Custody evaluators are mandated reporters and
by law are required
to report even suspicion of these findings. Interestingly, the
custody
evaluator never contacted anyone regarding her alleged findings.
This
adds doubtfulness to the creditability of her custody evaluation
and
expert opinion, especially when the Forensic Psychologist had
testified
that she was biased.
It appears that the Court, apparently being
angry about the
alleged delay, held
out on making his ruling until after the children had moved
away. Upon
realizing his mistake regarding the delay, he decided to use
this same
custody evaluator's opinion that the children were allegedly
more
bonded to the Mother as the factor for justifying his decision.
The Court
chastised the Father for having "an intensity in this case".
The court
also ordered the father to pay some of Mother's attorney fees.
This
appeal asks the appellate court to curb an evaluators influence
and to
assure they follow the rules of court.
This Case is currently being appealed.
Transcripts available.
(Taken from court transcripts and records)
Contact info;
Kaycee
Families4@justice.com
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Hello,
I'm Larry a single parent two children Anne-Marie 17, Which we
got a scholarship in music at ASU, She carries a 3.85 grade. My
son Michael-David is a football player at Arvada West also a good
student. We had a fake funeral for their mother, we were together
for 18 years, we went to x-mass for 10 days came back she was
gone, money credit cards, everything, she canceled all checks
which made us homeless and on the street, that was 8 years ago.
When we finally seen her she told all three of us to f- off she
hates us. I cried not knowing what was wrong with us. We have
survived, we are very close, hugs and kisses are a very important
part of our lives. We still love our mom, but don’t really like
that woman. I still don’t know what went wrong sometimes I still
cry. My daughter is now in Arizona, my son is here, we are very
good friends and confide in each other regularly. We love each
other and depend on each other. I couldn’t live without them.
We are doing great as a family all the little things that were
tough are now looked at in humor. The Lord takes very good care
of us.
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